Saturday, January 31, 2009

The Wrestler


Maybe it's because Mickey Rourke is staging a "comeback" with this movie. Maybe because the film was low-budgeted and in spite of this, delivered beyond satisfaction. Maybe because Darren Aronofsky (my favorite actress's Rachel Weisz's real-life partner) directed it. Whatever the reason is, I find The Wrestler overrated. There is so much ballyhoo about Rourke's performance and how award-worthy this whole movie is and I probably expected too much. To be fair, Rourke did a remarkable job here. Marisa Tomei (nominated for Best Supporting Actress) is equally deft in her portrayal as a pole-dancing, stripteasing, lap-dancer. Evan Rachel Wood playing Rourke's lesbian daughter is worth mentioning, too.

But there's nothing really fresh or new in this movie that hasn't been tackled in any other film before it. Stories of personal redemption and glory, of trying to connect with abandoned children, of trying to find love in the unlikeliest places and circumstances, of "seizing the day" have always been Academy Award staples. Even the ending that's left open for interpretation is just a tad contrived.

My verdict: Although a definitely breakthrough performance from Rourke may snag him the Oscar, I still favor Frank Langella (Frost/Nixon) or Sean Penn (Milk) to win.

Flying the coop...


Life is just a series of flights. From childhood. From parents. From brothers and sisters. From home. From love. From work. From hatred. From indifference. From immaturity. From sanity and back. From wrong impressions. From quick judgments. From generalizations. From pinpointing the specifics. From sadness. From loneliness. From frustration. From friends. From enemies. From abuse. From emptiness. From boredom. From fruitlessness. From doom. From religion. From hierarchy. From structure. From superficiality. From ghosts and demons. From gods and heroes. From biases and prejudices. From materialism. From fleeting trends. From occupation and preoccupation. From lies. From false hopes. From disrespect. From undue recognition. From red tape and bureaucracy. From corruption and corruptness. From perversity. From well-meaning assumptions. From civility. From pretense. From ulterior motives. From literal translations. From personal interpretations. FROM NOW ON...

Time to get up...

Sometimes we need reminding that it's not how great our lives are that matters. It's how we use this life to make a great impression on others'. This is a video of Australian Nick Vujicic, born with no arms or limbs (but he has a "little chicken drumstick", haha). If you feel down, depressed, fallen, or just lonely, let Nick teach you how to get back on your feet again. Be inspired. Be impressed. I know I am.